The Verbal Diarrhea Elevator Pitch

verbaldiarrheaCome on, admit it. You’ve heard it or done it. I know I have…The verbal diarrhea that happens when someone has to introduce themselves to a group of peers or prospects. The explanation that drones on and on about what someone does for a living, leaving the listeners perplexed and exhausted. And those are the people who are actually listening to the intro. Most actually have checked out after 5 seconds and are dreaming of their upcoming beach vacation or the hot checkout clerk who helped them at Wal-Mart.

Let’s examine this strange phenomenon more closely and talk about why this odd circumstance happens with a lot of small business owners:

Nerves

Ok, it’s nerve-wracking to have a whole lot of eyeballs on you, listening and judging you. I get that. However, if you’re in business for yourself, you’re pretty much going to have to get over it and do your thing. At least you can spend the time and effort to do it well so that even if you are wetting yourself in fear, you end up getting clients out of the ordeal.

You Don’t Really Know

If I had a dollar for every time I think this happens…. When a business owner has a verbal-diarrhea-elevator-pitch-moment, it’s usually because they either don’t have a niche (a focused target and specialty) or they have multiple ones that they can’t decide between. Do the strategic research and find out where your business needs to focus on before you try to introduce what it is that you do. Clarity gets remembered. Confused minds don’t buy or refer.

You Get Into The ‘How’

Most people are simple and linear creatures. When they ask you what you do for a living, they’d like to hear something that they already have a category in their head for, like a dentist or a therapist or a consultant etc. When business owners are unclear about how their ideal clients categorize what they do,  they try to compensate by getting into the HOW of what they do. They think that by adding more information, that people will better understand what they do.

For example, is it better for an elevator pitch to say ‘I’m a financial advisor and I help divorcing women to navigate the settlement negotiation’ or ‘I’m a resilience activator who helps divorcing women through the settlement negotiation by setting goals, managing relationships and providing financial planning while supporting them through their journey of divorce.’ In my opinion, the ‘how’ version is too long. The elevator pitch is just the teaser to let your audience know if they’re your ideal client. If they are, don’t worry, they’ll ask you to go into more details about how you help.

You Throw in Your ‘Why’

I badly teed off a seminar leader who was making the room full of business women stand up and tell their ‘why they do what they do’ as part of their elevator pitch. I simply stated that in my experience, and in my experience through my clients, that getting into ‘I am a leadership coach who helps IT companies because when I was at ABC Inc, I got unfairly fired etc.’ would actually be an ineffective way to do that initial intro because it was too long and would lose the audience engagement. The seminar leader staunchly stated that she didn’t agree but you should’ve heard how long some of those ‘why’ stories were. I simply couldn’t see how any audience would stay engaged in this particular sort of verbal diarrhea. An Elevator Pitch in my mind is simply to establish 2 things: what business is this person in and can he/she help me or someone I know. Anything over and above that belongs in a deeper conversation.

So don’t be an elevator pitch chump and capture way more interest and dazzle with your concise and distinct self-intro. Believe me, you’ll feel the results almost immediately when people approach you after your intro to ask more about what you do.

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How Joan Rivers Can Help Your Biz

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The late great comedian Joan Rivers once said “I succeeded by saying what everyone else is thinking.”  As a small business growth coach, I have to ask…what if you could succeed by saying what everyone else is thinking about your industry and your clients?

What You Can Learn From Joan

If you were to dare to step into your own thoughts as publicly as Joan did in marketing your own business, what would you do differently?

This is a passionate topic for me because every day I see successful, smart and wonderful business women hide themselves behind stock imagery, silence and generic thoughts. Their businesses are suffering for it.

Tell Your Stories of Shame

Joan Rivers was even authentic when she was inauthentic (“I wish I had a twin, so I could know what I’d look like without plastic surgery.”)

A former client and now good friend was telling me the story of how she got fired by a crazy boss who reprimanded her for having a stapler on her desk in a ‘clean-desk policy’ office. Imagine how much more relevant her work as a Standards expert would be if she related that story in her blogs or keynotes?

What makes you think you’re the only one who has suffered shame, humiliation and learned from your mistakes? Why not expose your truth so you can connect deeper with and help more people?

Show Yourself

Ok, I don’t mean SHOW yourself inappropriately but people want to see your picture. They want at the minimum to see your profile picture. Then use your About page or your social media posts or your newsletter to show them your life. I frequently show pictures of my family and my clients and the events I go to.

Show your values. Tell your clients and community what your deeply held beliefs are. People I have never met approach me like friends at networking events and tell me they follow my work and life. I find that the highest open rates and click rates on my newsletters are when they contain personal stories. I even had a stranger (who was on my mailing list) give me bedwetting tips for my 4-year-old because he’d read my story about it. Wow!

Be Afraid But Do It Anyway

Joan said “I’ve learned: When you get older, who cares? I don’t mince words, I don’t hold back. What are you gonna do to me? Fire me? It’s been done. Threaten to commit suicide? Done. Take away my show? Done! Not invite to me to the Vanity Fair party? I’ve never been invited! If I ever saw the invitation, I’d use it as toilet paper.”

The true sign of courage they say, is not when you do something brave and you’re not afraid but it’s when you’re peeing your pants and do it anyway. Each time I invest in even more expensive levels of coaching, each time I travel internationally to do a trade show, each time I speak in front of a new crowd of people, I leave my comfort at home. I have embraced being afraid and doing it anyway.

Everyday when I speak to unsuccessful entrepreneurs, they are so keenly aware that what’s stopping their success are their fears. It’s when they let those fears stop them from doing what needs to be done that they get into trouble.

Joan wasn’t afraid of anything. I personally will miss this gutsy lady. Anyone who bravely stands up to criticism and keeps on going earns my undying respect.

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Are You Credentialed to Death and Starving?

credentialledThis blog’s been inside me for a long time. I myself was on my way to being credentialed up the wazoo and still had no clients. If this is you, then maybe you’ll be able to make the change you need. That’s all I ever hope for when I write these things.

I Don’t Know Enough

The Credentialed-To-Death consultant/coach/engineer, (you name it) is sure about one thing: that they need  more letters behind their names, more accreditation and to obtain more certifications. They do this partly because they like learning but mostly because they delude themselves that they’ll get more or bigger clients this way.

I was that person once. When contemplating leaving a decade-long corporate career, I didn’t know how to make the jump into self-employment so I went out and got a coaching certificate. Then, I went and got another one and another one. Each subsequent one got more expensive and more involved and yes, it taught me more but none of it actually got me any clients.

Investing in the Wrong Thing

To help more people or to make more money, what most people in the Credentialed-To-Death camp don’t know is that it actually doesn’t work that way. Knowing more about your subject matter isn’t the same as knowing more about selling and marketing your subject matter. It astounds me that every time I meet a coach or a consultant who is starving for new clients, they are gearing up to spend another chunk of significant cash on yet another certification course or another program that is not about getting clients.

Unfortunately as I found out, if you can’t get them, you can’t SERVE them. So if you’ve launched your business in the hopes of helping people, you are an unknown entity to them until you sell and market yourself.

Somewhere, (probably in your childhood) someone taught you that it’s sleazy to sell but honorable to learn. Look inside yourself to find the source of your patterns. Awareness of your patterns makes you more powerful.

End Of Rant

So if you’re suffering from the Credentialed-To-Death-but-Starving-for-Clients syndrome, stop the cycle now and start investing in giving some serious care and attention to actually GETTING the clients.

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What You Can Learn About Marketing From Lady Gaga

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Jackie Huba speaking about Lady Gaga

Yesterday, I fell in love with Lady Gaga. I must admit, I initially thought that she was a little too out there for me. Then, I watched a speaker named Jackie Huba who wrote a book about marketing lessons from Lady G speak about why she was a marketing genius who was named the top influencer of our decade by Time Magazine!

Here are the lessons she learned from Lady Gaga about marketing:

Focus On Your 1%

Forget about the 80-20 rule where you concentrate on 20% of the customers who are responsible for 80% of your sales volume. Get even more specific, down to your RAVING crazy-fanatic-would-die-for-you fans that actually make up only 1% of your customers.

Lady Gaga calls them her Little Monsters. She calls herself Mother Monster. She has created clubs and websites for her 1%. She lavishes her love and attention on these people and they love her back and bring other fans to her franchise. What can you do for your 1% that you’re not doing right now?

Create A Community

When Lady Gaga wanted to create an online community for her Monsters, she didn’t like Facebook, she didn’t like Twitter so she paid a software company to create one for her. Littlemonsters.com allows her to directly and deeply connect with her fans. It makes them feel special and different than any other community. What can you do to create a community around what you do?

Lead With Your Values

Did you know that Lady Gaga is a staunch advocate of anti-bullying and LGBT causes, funding and speaking to support these causes with her Born This Way Foundation? Did you know that at her concert, she created colourful buses where fans who are being bullied can get counseling? People are in love with her values. Her music supports her values. Her marketing supports her values. Are you doing enough to talk about your values in your business?

Be Different

When Coty approached Lady Gaga to do a perfume deal, she refused to be like Britney Spears, Justin Bieber or Christina Aguilera. She made Coty go back to their scientists and create a black liquid that sprayed on clear and named it the title of her first album called Black. The name was also a message about her views on how dark fame could be.  She then created a multi-million dollar video to launch it that rivaled the best science fiction movie trailer in history. She captured an enormous market share in a very fragmented and competitive market. The CEO of Coty was quoted as saying that she forced the industry to change because she refused to do the same thing as everyone else. What are you doing differently than your peers in your industry?

Lady Gaga certainly taught an old marketer like me a few lessons and reminded me of the importance of values and community. Now, I’ve gotta think of my next meat-dress-move! What will be yours?

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3 Simple Steps To Pick Your Ideal Client (VIDEO)

Hi, this is Chala Dincoy from Coachtactics.com your no-nonsense marketing coach who gives your small business a booster shot in the arm. In this video, I’m going to be addressing a big headache of small businesses -How Do I Pick My Ideal Client?

First of all, I want to congratulate YOU ON KNOWING that your business needs an ideal client. Somehow, you’ve figured out that  you will run out of time, energy and money fast if you try to go after EVERYONE and market to every type of client.

Let me put you out of your misery and tell you the quickest way to pick your ideal client group to work with. There are 3 criteria that you can use when deciding on a target market.

First Simple Step

First you write down a whole bunch of different target groups you could have.  Say Housewives, Dentists, Mining Companies, etc. Then you put them through these three criteria to pick the best one. The first criteria is whether there’s a fit with that target client and your own personality, background and skill set. I mean if you’re a vegan targeting meat companies like a client of mine once did, you may want to rethink that one.

Second Simple Step

Number 2 criteria to pick your ideal client group is whether they can afford to pay you the level of income you want to make.  I mean, what if your soul cries out to help a group of people who are broke? I say, do like I do and get more paying clients so you can give away a portion of your time as charity to those who are less fortunate.

Third Simple Step

The last criteria in choosing your ideal client group is access. Do you have or can you easily get access to large groups of these people. For example, a client who wanted to target millionaires found that she couldn’t afford to join their clubs or networks and didn’t have a single millionaire in her personal network. So, do yourself a favour when you’re planning to grow your business and use these 3 simple criteria to pick the right target client.

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Answer The Miracle Happiness Question

Have you ever wondered how one question could make you happy? Psychologists at the Canadian Positive Psychology Association conference that I was at last week sure did. They went further than wondering about it. They researched it. That’s right, I attended a 2 day conference with 400 happy people who did and presented research about happiness.

One of the researchers found that when a “miracle” question was asked, it gave perspective to people who felt strife in their lives. It made them actually feel better.

The question?

If you woke up and your world is exactly how you want it to be , what would be the evidence that it’s how you want it to be?

So of course, being a small business coach, I ask that question for your business. What would be the evidence that your business would be exactly how you want it to be?

Top 5 Indicators

Based on all my conversations with hundreds of small businesses that I talk to each year, I’ve taken a good guess at (and included some of my own) indicators that would be evidence that our businesses would be exactly as we dreamed:

1. All My Clients Value And Adore Me and Vice Versa

2. I Never Have To Sell And Market

3. I’m Making Tons Of Money That Grows Each Year

4. I Don’t Work Long Hours

5. I Never Have To Do Anything Uncomfortable

Other Questions To Ask

  • What would you do differently if you woke up to your ideal life?
  • What would be different compared to your life now?
  • Where do you rate yourself right now, on a scale of 0 to 10 (10 being the ideal)?
  • What’s different from being at a 0 vs. where you’re at now?

When you feel yourself getting down about your business, refocus your energies by asking yourself the “Miracle” question and see if you have anything to be happy about!

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10 Terrible Excuses Not To Market Your Small Business

excuseAs a small biz marketing guru, I’ve heard them all. They have one thing in common: They are all excuses that are holding you back from your dreams. They are false beliefs you picked up somewhere from your family, your culture, the media, a bad experience..you name it. I can go on.

Here are the ones that I’ve heard most often. See if you can spot yourself in one.

1. I Have No Time

I once heard a quote that said ‘Time is a created thing. When you want to, you find it.’ I couldn’t agree more.

2. No Money

The way that I marketed my business when I first started my coaching practice almost 3 years ago was practically for free. I went networking at low-cost events and got on the phone to book myself in as a speaker in front of crowds I wanted to penetrate. In addition, through social media, I could reach almost anyone I wanted to and did. You will never have enough money if you make this one an excuse.

3. No Connections

Didn’t I just mention social media? Not only that, but when you reach out to your own friends and family and give them a clear picture of your ideal client and ask for their help in meeting them, you will be surprised at how many connections you truly have.

4. Don’t Like To Network

I used to be against networking. I bit the bullet and kept going to the same events that my ideal clients go to. Over and over and over again. Now, I’m surprised if I don’t know at least 10 people at ANY event I go to. The very first ones I used to go to, I’d ask the organizers’ help in getting introduced around. In others, I’d find one accommodating soul at the buffet and ask if they knew anyone and ask to be introduced. The rest is history.

5. Don’t Know What To Do To Market

If you’re truly clueless about whether you should be networking or advertising, then get some help. There are thousands of business coaching programs available at every price point. If you’re starting from zero, you need help. Stop wasting your time with this excuse and learn what to do.

6. Can’t Market Until My New Product Launch

Or until I finish my new certification or until my lease is up or until etc etc. This is a time-honored delay tactic and the granddaddy of all excuses. It’s a false belief that what you offer isn’t enough until you get something to complete you. Even if your entire business is the new product, you still don’t have to wait for the launch to start marketing. Ever heard of teaser campaigns?

7. It’s Icky To Self-Promote

This is a huge excuse and an honest to goodness belief that a lot of my clients have. Do the work to flip that belief (see my post on Dr.Joe Dispenza’s work to help you) or you’ll go bankrupt fast. If you didn’t self promote, you would continue to be the best kept secret in town and help no more than a handful of people in the world. Is that what you were born for? Surely your destiny can’t be meant to have you playing so small?

8. I’m No Good At It

I’m no good at beach volleyball, snowboarding, scuba diving, running, speaking French at cocktail parties, keeping my opinions to myself..and I can go on and on. I do it anyway and guess what..the more I do it, the better I get. Ditch your excuse and get out there.

9. I Have A Young Family

Oh, this doozy was mine for ages. I didn’t want to leave my 5-year-old at home and go out networking or travel out-of-town to large conferences and speaking gigs. Well, some wise women (one being Sandra Yancey) had me changing my perspective about this and I began to see it as simply the excuse that it was. I’m not like the George Clooney Up In The Air character where he was gone 300 days of the year. I only venture out-of-town once a month for a few days. The networking also isn’t so bad because I get to see him during the day.

10. I Need To Make Money So I Have To Work IN The Biz

Well, this is perhaps the biggest place to hide for entrepreneurs-their work. I have clients who build their businesses with me and get so busy with client work that they literally drop our marketing work entirely. I get a call from them during their dead season a few months later asking to start the work up again. Biz growth is a mean mistress. Unless you build it into your busy life all the time, she will not want you back easily.

I hope you were NOT able to recognize yourself in this list. Maybe there are even a few excuses I’ve missed. Let me know..I always love a good chuckle.

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